Key Takeaways: You are desperately looking for signs to tell your crush you like them because you are terrified of making a mistake. Hesitation is the killer of attraction. You wait for the “perfect moment.” You overanalyze every text message. You tell yourself you need more time to be “sure.” Meanwhile, another man—who has less … Read more
Key Takeaways: You are struggling to understand exactly why your availability kills attraction, even though you are just trying to be a good partner. If you answer her text in three seconds every time, you are not showing devotion. You are showing that you have nothing better to do. In any economy, when the market … Read more
Key Takeaways: Shit tests are the hidden language of dating, and most men are illiterate. You think she creates drama because she is crazy. You think she picks fights out of nowhere because she is “toxic” or illogical. You are wrong. She is not creating chaos to hurt you. She is creating chaos to see … Read more
You think the fastest way to a woman’s heart is to tell her she’s beautiful, right? You compliment her eyes, her smile, her dress. But here’s a hard truth most men never learn: women, especially attractive women, are bored of hearing that. It’s white noise. It’s what every other guy says. And it signals that … Read more
You think the way to build attraction is by always being agreeable, right? You’re looking for the right things to say to make her obsessed, but you’ve been taught that means showering her with compliments, texting all day, and always putting her first. But here’s a challenging truth I’ve uncovered from psychological research: attraction isn’t … Read more
You’ve been told to ‘just listen to what she says.’ But what about the lies women tell men? Not the malicious lies, but the ‘innocent’ ones. Here’s a hard psychological truth: in dating, what a person says is often a smokescreen for what they truly mean. But here’s a hard psychological truth that most people … Read more
You think the classic sign of cheating is lipstick on the collar, right? Or the late nights at the office, the smell of another person’s perfume. Television and movies have taught us to look for these big, dramatic, obvious clues. But I’m here to tell you, based on extensive psychological research into modern infidelity, that … Read more