Your researcher and translator for the psychology of modern relationships.
Welcome.
Are you tired of superficial dating advice? Are you trying to understand why some relationships thrive while others seem to fall apart for no reason?
You’re not alone.
My name is Ben Carter, and this site is the resource I wish I had years ago.
Let me be clear about something from the start: I am not a clinical psychologist, a therapist, or a medical professional.
I’m a researcher, a writer, and—like many of you—someone who grew frustrated with the vague, “just be confident” advice that doesn’t actually work.
My “Why”: From Confusion to Clarity
My journey into the psychology of love wasn’t planned. It was born from experience.
For years, I watched my own relationships—and those of my friends—struggle. I saw good people fail to connect, misread signals, and repeat the same painful patterns. I realized that the common advice we were all following was failing us.
I wasn’t finding real answers, so I went looking for them myself.
My Expertise: The “Translator”
I dove headfirst into the academic world. I spent thousands of hours buried in research papers, clinical studies, and foundational texts on attachment theory, behavioral psychology, and the work of pioneers like Dr. John Gottman.
A lightbulb went on. The answers were there, but they were locked away in dense, academic language.
My expertise isn’t in a clinic; it’s in translation.
My “job” at Ben Carter Psychology is to be your translator. I do the heavy lifting—reading the complex studies and synthesizing the data—to bring you practical, evidence-based insights that you can actually use to build healthier, happier relationships.
What This “Content Fortress” Is (And What It Isn’t)
This website is built on a foundation of E-E-A-T (Experience, Expertise, Authoritativeness, and Trust).
- What This Is: A resource for evidence-based insights into human connection. We cite our sources and link to credible, authoritative studies (like Psychology Today, The Gottman Institute, and peer-reviewed journals).
- What This Is Not: This is not medical advice or a substitute for professional therapy. If you are in serious distress, please seek help from a qualified mental health professional.
Your Journey Starts Here
My mission is to help you stop guessing and start understanding. Whether you’re trying to spot the [signs he likes you] or build a love that lasts, the answers are here.
The best place to begin is with our foundational Topic Cluster: [Chúng ta sẽ chèn link Pillar Page ở đây].
You can also find my daily insights on the Ben Carter Psychology YouTube Channel.
Thank you for being here. Let’s start decoding.
— Ben Carter